I started like this too, the stress and the adrenaline shakes were overwhelming some times, for a long period of time. But then i got used to the process of losing and the games became much calmer for me. Your mindset is such an important thing, don't let the stress get to you.
Yeah, Aachen ist quite nice. The missing female students are still kind of a trademark, although I've been kind of lucky with 1/4 females in my starting semester. :D
I would appreciate to play some Legacy with you, if you'd also like to! Just pm me your ingame acc if you want.