I'm playing reactive.

I'm top 25 gold Protoss and I feel that every decision I'm making is reactive to what my opponent is doing as opposed to making active decisions as Day[9] once talked about. I see what my opponent is doing and that dictates when I expand, which tech path I take, and how many gates to make of the start etc.

I want to know what I can do to start controlling the game and forcing my opponent to do things that I can predict. As opposed to just playing reactive and consequently defensive.